This will be a short one.
If love truly exists, it either manifests in a form of a person assuming what others think and act as if they think that way, or it's in a form of knowing exactly the things that a person or group needs and act accordingly.
And there can only be one actual answer to it.
Interestingly, most people act like it is the former that is love, despite "thinking" that the latter is truly what love is.
One can ask others what they want but getting what they want wouldn't be "love" otherwise literally any entity who sells someone fairly is "loving", so the only other way it can work is if there is a truly universal definition of what love is, and until then, no one is truly loving, and that's pretty sad, but that's probably okay.
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